My Alyssa and her husband Sam became first time homeowners this past summer. Tommy and I could not be prouder of the both of them. From their wedding on, they’ve done it all on their own. Their wedding was planned without requesting help/advice/etc. I stood by in the background but did not but in or comment unless I was asked. And that was ok. I had a wedding; this was Alyssa’s turn; and she had every right to do things the way she wanted them done. Of course their wedding was beautiful and it was right after Covid restrictions so you can imagine how many people let loose, it was an awesome reception.
Fast forward from March 2021 to December 2024. Alyssa asked if she could host Christmas Day in their new house. Tommy and I were more than happy to say yes! It felt a little odd knowing I was not hosting here at my house. I had no, oh shit moments of panic of making sure the house was “right” days before Christmas. I went grocery shopping the weekend before Christmas Day and I was oddly calm because my mind wasn’t running here and there to make sure I wouldn’t forget anything. I have to say it was nice. Alyssa asked that we bring dessert/pastries. No problem, there was not a line for the bakery around the corner. Done!
My Alyssa prepared an amazing dinner; although I wasn’t totally surprised. She’s good. I loved spending the day with Alyssa, Sam, my girls and Sam’s warm family. Sam’s mom and I met years earlier before Alyssa and Sam even met. She’s the best; so real and honest. It was a pleasure talking with her and spending time together.
For half a second I wondered if I would feel odd not hosting Christmas. I was totally wrong in that half second. Tommy and I were so proud to be in Alyssa and Sam’s new house, enjoying them; enjoying having us spend the holiday with them.
Love my kids, they are amazing.
Menay O; mom to 4, Christian and thrift shopper on the side... 